what women really want

the thing about women is they are very much like men. women do of course want to be chased by their night in shining armor but most of us like to do the chasing as well. most of the girls i know have this problem where they can't ever find a date including myself. most of them are lovely people who honestly know plenty of guys. this brings up certain situations that us as women cannot seem to avoid.

1. he is taken- the guys we like are often preoccupied with some girl we see ourselves as better than. in most cases the goal for these girls is to push that girl aside and get in with their ex but a lot of the time we happen to know the guy through the girl he is dating and are good friends with them so we sit and wait for them to break up except they don't so while that girl could be out looking for a reasonable guy she is sitting inside watching netflix and crying instead.

2. he is gay- now this subject may be a little touchy for some but i really don't care. picture this a girl is looking for a decent guy and she finds one. he is gorgeous, well groomed, well dressed, hard working, and good at anything he puts his mind to. better yet he is a great conversationalist and you can actually talk to him without hearing one stupid word uttered from his mouth. his boyfriend walks up and starts talking to you and five minutes later they've left for their shared one bedroom apartment. now in reality is it so bad that a straight girl would fall for this guy? he seems perfect and acts it too. so for those girls who have never experienced this try not to look down on those who fall for them all the time due to their lack of gay dar.

3. he is a douche- this guy gets whoever he wants and as i stated before girls love a challenge. no one wants a needy partner who showers you with so much attention that you literally suffocate. knowing this a douche bag who a girl must work hard to get and groom not to cheat is probably the best choice. every girl likes a bad boy especially when they take a slight and completely subtle interest in them. it is a primal instinct to want to earn a man's trust and love. the idea though for guys out there reading this is to give growing attention over time rather than either of the extremes.

4. he is clueless- most guys have a difficult time knowing when a girl likes them. we could put out all of our moves and you could still think we are just friends or that we aren't looking for a relationship. it goes both ways but as is traditional girls want to be asked out by guys not the other way around. being protected and having things go at our pace is really important to all women and though we want your respect it is painful to sit around waiting for who knows how long for a guy who barely acknowledges our existence.

5. he is perfect?- our parents have always wanted this guy for us. he is good looking, successful, smart, well off, good with kids, and is pretty good at whatever he tries. for some reason we just don't like him but we date him anyways. some even go as far as long term marriage. our friends like him our family likes him so we settle for what we aren't quite happy with. but why don't we like this great guy. he offers no surprises and honestly most women just want someone who can hold their own even if that means dating a less great looking and dirt poor guy who refused to go to college. we just want someone who will watch our favorite shows with us. our parents would accept our life choices anyway so why not pick a guy you can actually have a conversation with. to take a faked relationship like this seriously is bad for both sides as each individual in this couple deserves better.