The Worst Man

I recently discovered what it was that made a guy disgusting and a total turn-off to women. So when talking to a guy over text I was thinking how well the conversation was going. That is until he asked me if he was ugly. Of course I said no because he was average and I didn't want to be rude. A few texts later and he sent a picture of himself shirtless. I stopped responding. 

What if a girl did that after such a short time knowing him? Talking to a guy she found attractive but had never met in person and shaming her body the whole time before sending him a picture of herself shirtless. This woman would be dubbed a hoe and rightly so. Body shaming is ugly and pathetic on both men and women. No one wants to hear a person they think is attractive constantly disagree with you like your taste in them is wrong. It sends a bad message. On receiving a desperate no-shirt bathroom picture I promise the person on the receiving end either is finished with the conversation or just as desperate as the one who sent it.

I would like to know why guys do this and it isn't just one guy its most of them. BTW none of them were under 20 when talking to me a 17 year old starting college. This is more than inappropriate. If I was 30 it would be a turn-off lead alone when I am far younger than him. What has society done to our men? Where did they learn this idiotic behavior? All men should watch disney movies before attempting to date anyone. Women do not want your sad shirtless pictures. Not because of vanity but because they deserve a guy who will go out of his way to be a man with integrity. The kind of guy who doesn't let her walk all over him just because he doesn't feel pretty. Putting yourself before someone else is the best thing you can do for a relationship. Give her a rose not a reason to leave. You could be a perfectly nice guy and she won't like you because you don't give her a reason to respect you. As a basic rule don't send her naked skin filled anything or body shame her or yourself. Talk about things you see in your life; your interests and political standings are interesting. Don't expect stupid and she will respect you for respecting her.